Dating Help For 40+
You've mastered life.
This YouTube series helps you master love.
For singles 40+ Who Want To Find Love
Dating over 40 is different — and you shouldn’t have to navigate it alone.
Whether you’re divorced, widowed, or returning to dating after years away, the modern landscape can feel overwhelming. Apps, profiles, swipes, boundaries, dating jargon, emotional readiness — It’s a lot! It's tiring and you're ready to give up…
We help you find → clarity, confidence, and your match!
Here's What You Can Expect From XOXO40 on YouTube.
Share Feelings, Not Just Values
We are focused on:
- Creating a dating experience that feels right;
- Teaching couples how to communicate their needs;
- Choosing better matches;
- Effective communication.
We Provide Practical Guidance
We provide you with:
- Profile tips;
- Swiping strategies;
- Moving from chat to real dates;
- Everything is actionable and clear.
No theory, no fluff—just strategies to get you dating!
XOXO40 Coaching
Our coaching will help you:
- Build a better profile;
- Review potential matches;
- Plan your dates.
Save time. Reduce stress. Reach your goals much faster!
Learn how to find your match…
Join the XOXO40 Heart Hub
You get:
- Coaching discounts
- Heart Hub-only tips
- Profile Templates
- Date Tracker
No fluff. No spam. No judgement. Just support!
Real Stories from Our Community
"I'd been on dating platforms for over 2 years with no real success. I'd made a decision to get serious or delete my profile. Sandra helped me revise my entire strategy and taught me how to stop wasting time making the same mistakes."
— Latasha, 49
"I was getting the first date but struggling to get a second. Sandra quickly figured out what I was doing wrong and helped me turn it around. I'm much more comfortable and making a better impression on my first date and yes, getting that second one."
— Jon, 52
"I'd been widowed for five years and couldn't imagine dating again. xoxo40 helped me understand that honoring my late husband's memory and opening myself to new love weren't mutually exclusive. I'm now in a beautiful relationship with someone who respects my journey."
— Patricia, 56
Coaching Help
Clarity & Confidence
Get clear on what you want, how to express it, and how to show up as your real, grounded self — no scripts, no performing.
Better Matches, Better Dates
Use modern apps intentionally. Spot emotionally healthy partners early. Eliminate time-wasters fast.
Emotional Ease & Real Progress
Replace anxiety with calm, rebuild trust in yourself, and move forward with purpose and maturity.
Your Next Great Love Story Is About To Be Written
This isn't about settling or compromising. It's about building a relationship that honors everything you've learned, everything you've survived, and everything you still dream about. It's about finding someone who sees your history not as baggage but as beautiful evidence of a life fully lived.
"Love isn't over. It's just wiser."
Created with love by Sandra Hamilton & Christopher Strachan.
For singles 40+ who still believe in meaningful connection.
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